masochistic

This is the first time I’m blogging for my own satisfactory reasons.

Today started with me thinking I had to move my car to the other side of the street because it’s Monday.  Turned out I was already parked on the right side.  Then I forgot that my brother and sister did not have Veteran’s Day off and I went to see if my brother was still home and he wasn’t but my sister was. Waking her up, I said “It’s  8:40, sweetheart.  Do you have school today?”  She just looked at me with wide eyes and replied, “What,” in a very innocent, child-like voice.  I laughed and asked her if she had a calendar she could look at and see if she had school today.  After looking she realized she did have school.  At that point, if I were to bring her to school she would have gotten a detention.  Now, before I tell you how I kept her home from school to avoid getting a detention and you concluding that I am a bad sister, I want you to realize one thing; she is a straight A student and has never been absent before.  Getting a detention is the end of the world for her.  So, ultimately, I decided to keep her home with me.  A bit later, my boyfriend came upstairs, already knowing of the occurrence earlier, he suggested he go to Walgreens and get some nacho cheese.  After coming back, he also had a movie, Mirror Mirror.  All we had to do today was laundry and his brother was going to text him telling him when to come over so he could fix his exhaust on his truck.  So he suggested we watch the movie, and we did.  About three hours later, the movie ends.  I got up and got in the shower because I knew we had things to get done.  After getting out of the shower, I went down to my room to change but on the way down the stairs, my boyfriend was coming up.  He looked at me and told me that his brother texted him to be at his house at 1:45, it was 1:15.  I got a little frustrated at that because he always complains about that when other people do it.  So, I asked him for a kiss and he said no…at that point, I was ticked off.  I asked why and he said that I had to brush my teeth.  Mind you that during the movie, he tried to kiss me a few times but I said no because he hadn’t brushed his teeth, and I don’t know if it’s just me, but I’m not a fan of making out with someone that has unbrushed teeth, not even someone I’ll marry (my teeth were brushed). Anyway, I  walked away and went to my room to dress and he went upstairs.  After getting ready for my day, I started brushing my hair.  Couldn’t find my glasses and when he came downstairs I asked him if he’d seen them anywhere, he said no.  He then went to the side of the bed that I sleep on and said he couldn’t see them.  Then he asked me if I was going to come upstairs to say goodbye to him before he left and I made a sarcastic remark of “You’re so puppeteer-ed.”  Whether that makes sense to you or not, here’s an explanation:  he is indulged in his family.  Not a bad thing, but when they say jump and if you do, you’ll jump into a volcano, he will still jump.  If it were me that asked him to be at my house in a half an hour and he had plans, he would be ticked off.  As expected, he got upset and asked what I meant, and I said nothing. Then he started storming off up the stairs and I yelled “What a great personality of a boyfriend.”  Because I knew he was just going to leave after going upstairs, without saying goodbye, which I suggested that I say goodbye while he was downstairs because I needed my glasses, hadn’t been wearing them all day and I had a bad headache because of it.  I ended up finding them on the table -.-

Now, before I get to the point of my reasoning for posting this I’m going to give you some background information:

His parents don’t like me because once they caught us in his room watching a movie.

His parents and siblings don’t like me because when I got a new rabbit, he wanted to bring it home and we agreed under the circumstances of as long as he brings the bunny over so he can play with my bunny sometimes.  After bringing him home, his mother freaked out, banging and kicking his door saying get rid of that thing and his dad tried to let it loose into the alley.  so that night is when he decided he was going to move out because being 19 and your parents flipping that much about a rabbit you could easily give right back to the previous owner rather than making it stress out from the screaming and loud noises. My mother gladly accepted him into our home.

So, now you know that, let me tell you what I texted him after he left.

“For the record, I’m not mad that you’re going home.  I’m aggravated because I got in the shower so we could get laundry done.  You’re the one who wanted to watch the movie in the morning and that took about 2.5 hours.  It seems like there’s a reason why I never go to your house anymore and when we are having a good day, it ends terribly.” 

He replied 20 minutes later with

“I got the movie for [my sister] to watch.  She picked it out.  If you wanted to do something I wasn’t stopping you.  And I invited you to come when you’re done doing your thing.”

I responded

“You got the movie for [my sister], I understand that but then I’d be that bad guy if I say no, that the table should be cleaned off before we do anything.  And yes, I know you invited me over after but if I show up with my sister, we would just be in the way and I don’t have gas to go back and forth, that’s why I thought I would go with you.  Didn’t know your brother would give you such short notice.  If I had done that to you you would have gotten aggravated.”

So, be honest. What’s your opinion on this?

you don’t always see them, but you know they’re always there”. ☺

ISAAC!